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Curious to Know What Your Teenage Daughter Thinks About Life at the Moment?

First Published with Red Tricycle, April 20, 2020 Obviously, our world has changed. We are navigating an upside-down world of social distancing, self-isolation, uncertainty, and changes to our daily routines. Less obvious is how teenage girls are experiencing this pandemic, some are not talking yet and others are immersed in their digital devices. I was wondering how teenage girls were adjusting to these changes so I asked teenage girls five questions. Their answers may not only surprise you but also give you some insight and ideas for how best to help them and for…

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Empowering Our Kids in Our Current Upside Down World

First Published in Red Tricycle, March 26, 2020 Self-isolation, social distancing, and the stay at home movement: these are our new words, new reality, and new ways of being as we navigate the coronavirus pandemic. As stress and anxiety levels rise, so does the uncertainty of each day. We don’t know how long this will last and we cannot predict what will happen. We do know it will end. We all need this hope! As adults, we are trying to process the enormity and gravity of the current global situation and the “new normal”.…

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When Your Teen Has Supergirl Syndrome

First published in Red Tricycle, March 25, 2020 Today, girls feel the pressures to be pretty, popular, and talented. They are striving to fit in, keep up, and be all things to all people. Yet, girls are more stressed and anxious than ever before and consistently report feeling “not good enough.” As girls grow up, they change from strong, secure, and gutsy little girls to uncertain, afraid, and worried teen girls who hold back their voice, their opinion, and their adventurous spirits. They lose their true self and begin curating the “ideal” self—one who is…

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She is…Ready

Girls can be ready: ready for greatness, ready to step into their power, and ready for the 21st Century. But, they need to prepare. Girls will need skills for the future, especially social skills, technology skills, and thinking skills. They will also need to be creative, flexible, open-minded, open-hearted, and ready to think big and dream bigger. To prepare, girls can take time each day to think about who they want to be and what they want to do. They can envision what their future self will be like, look like, and feel like.…

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She is…Resilient

Girls can be resilient: resilient to changes and challenges, tough life stuff, and disappointments. Resiliency requires some struggle – whether it is a struggle with finding friends to trust, navigating social media, loss and letting go, or her own sense of self and security. Yet, when girls go through struggle and persevere, they become and they know they can get through anything. They realize they can be strong and resilient, no matter what comes their way.... This content is for Growing Strong Girls Possibilities Boxes members only.Log In Register…

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She is…Rooted

Girls can be rooted. How? By focusing on who they are and who they are becoming. So often, girls can be who others want them to be. They please and placate; they change into what they think we expect; they fear disappointing everyone. They lose themselves. Rooted girls can turn inward, dig deep, and spend time cultivating the values that best describe who they are such as: generous, humorous, optimistic, caring, compassionate, and joyful. Rooted girls then become strong and secure, from the inside out!... This content is for Growing Strong Girls Possibilities Boxes…

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The Antidote to Helicoptering our teens? Parenting from the Periphery

First published in the Toronto Star, by contributing columnist, Brandie Weikle, March 18, 2020 There are days when it seems that all I do is prod my teenager to get out of bed, get out the door on time, get on with that homework assignment and, for crying out loud, put away that laundry we folded last week. I don’t love the sound of my voice when it’s nagging and I know he doesn’t either. When our kids are no longer little, we move away from the acutely body-wearing work of waking frequently at…

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Periphery Parenting: A New Approach to Try with Your Teenage Daughter

First Published with Red Tricycle on March 18, 2020 Tiger? Helicopter? Lawnmover? Jellyfish? Which parenting st‌yle best describes you? Popular culture has some creative categories for today’s parents. You may be familiar with the “tiger mom” label used to describe the caregiver who shows tough love and holds high expectations for achievement and success. Perhaps you have also heard of helicopter parents, who hover over their kids, becoming overinvolved, or the lawnmower or snowplow st‌yles, where parents “mow down” a path for their children by removing any potential obstacles or discomforts. Then there’s the…

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The Rise of Girls

Hailey Eisen reached out to me for her feature article on girls in the Women of Influence Magazine. Of course, I said, “Yes” because one: I love interview experiences and two: I am deeply passionate (and concerned about) girls growing up in this generation and, specifically, the rise of girls. Girl Power is more than just a catchy phrase. To learn more about girls of power and influence, girls on the rise, check out the article here!... This content is for Growing Strong Girls Possibilities Boxes members only.Log In Register…

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Sorry, Not Sorry: Why Girls Need to Stop Apologizing

First Published with Red Tricycle You may have heard of a “little” best seller called, Girl, Stop Apologizing (2019) by multi-media company founder, Rachel Hollis. I don’t’ know about you but I’ve read it three times now, going on four. Hollis, speaker, author, and inspiring human being, calls us to action when she says, “It’s time to be yourself, unapologetically, and to show the world what happens when a woman challenges herself for greatness. It’s time to stop apologizing for who you are.”(p. 210). I took her message to heart and started making changes in my…

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